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The Working Mom 5 to 9 Routine (Morning and Evening)


Here I will share my Working Mom 5 to 9 routine for both the morning and evening. For working moms, the hours before and after the 9–5 are some of the most powerful. What you do in these blocks of time sets the tone for your health, your family, and your home. A well-structured 5 to 9 routine allows you to prioritize fitness, family connection, education, spiritual health, and order — all before or after the workday begins.

For me, the morning routine is really a 4 to 9 routine — those early hours give me the margin I need to be at my best and help me be productive as a CEO mom of four.

This is not about doing the bare minimum. It’s about going the extra mile: running farther, creating order at home, investing in education, strengthening spiritual health, and modeling discipline for your kids.

Too often, our culture normalizes moms “just getting by” — sacrificing their own health, order, and goals in the name of survival. My Working Mom 5 to 9 routine is built to reject that mindset. It’s about showing that moms can prioritize themselves, their fitness, their home, and their children’s growth without apology.

Working Mom 4 to 9 Routine – Morning

4:00 – 4:45 → Wake up, journal, read, reflect, and set goals for the day. This anchors my spiritual health and mindset before anything else. It also allows me to drink some coffee before my run!
4:45 – 5:00 → Stretch and prepare for my run.
5:00 – 6:15 → Run 8–10 miles. Fitness is a non-negotiable anchor for the day. (If I am running longer, I will begin earlier or end later.)
6:15 – 6:50 → Shower and get ready.
6:50 – 7:40 → Wake the kids, serve breakfast, change clothes, and do focused “learning” with the kids. One-on-one time here is essential.
7:40 – 8:15 → Walk the kids to school and back — exercise, fresh air, and connection.
8:15 – 9:00 → Prepare the baby for the nanny and reset the home.

Read more about my morning routine here.

Working Mom 5 to 9 Routine – Evening

5:00 – 6:00 → Pick up kids and spend time outdoors.
6:00 – 7:00 → Prepare a healthy dinner while the kids practice piano or play. Use this time to also pack lunches and reset the house for tomorrow.
7:00 – 8:00 → Baths, pajamas, and bedtime stories — a consistent nightly rhythm.
8:00 – 8:15 → Kids to bed.
8:15 – 9:00 → Read and wind down with intention before going to bed early.

Why Fitness Is Built Into My Routine

Running isn’t just exercise — it’s discipline, clarity, and resilience. Starting the day with an 8–10 mile run ensures that I begin with energy, focus, and strength. It grounds me before the demands of work and family begin. For me, it is a critical part of my routine. When I doubled my workout routine, I also significantly increased my overall productivity and feeling of well being.

Fitness is also about modeling for my kids what it means to push limits and stay consistent. They see that I prioritize health daily, which teaches them that physical and mental strength are priorities no matter what else is going on.

Why Spiritual Health Is Built Into My Routine

Before the world wakes up, I spend time journaling, reading, and reflecting. I write down my goals and align my mindset with what matters most. This time is non-negotiable — just like fitness — because it keeps me grounded, focused, and purposeful.

Spiritual health is about more than quiet reflection; it’s about clarity. It helps me show up as the best version of myself in every role: mom, professional, and individual.

Why Education Is Built Into My Kids’ Routine

Play is important, but it’s not enough. In school, children don’t always receive the one-on-one focus they need. One of my kids is way beyond his grade level in reading and math. Another one would have fallen behind if I did not regularly work with him. Having 1:1 attention is extremely important and transformational. Even just 20 minutes a day strengthens skills, fills gaps, challenges gifted kids, and shows your children that education is a family priority.

I do not have a degree in childhood development. But I can tell you that my kids are disciplined and confident and know from our 1:1 time together that their potential is limitless.

Why I Care for My Home Each Morning

Caring for the home is about more than “chores.” I outsource laundry, cleaning, and heavier household tasks during the day, but I intentionally handle things like dishes, tidying, and decluttering each morning.

There are a few reasons for this. First, it has to be done. I do not have someone emptying and filing my dishwasher every day. Second, a clean, organized helps everyone feels calmer, more focused, and better prepared for the day ahead. Lastly, going the extra mile in what I am doing in the house sets the tone for me personally during the day. If I take out the trash (technically, my husband’s “job”) or clean up a messy counter, I know I have personally started my day by going “above and beyond”.  So at that point, it is not about the home. It is about me. I also have learned to not expect anyone to notice or thank me. It is not about external praise. It is about internally being motivated and being our best selves.  

If you are a looking for a working mom 5-9 routine, I encourage you to raise the bar and prioritize your physical and mental health so that you can be the best version of yourself for your family.